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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will give you a 5 if you answer =)

i can*t even tell you how much he sounds like my ex boyfriend. The guy really likes you and i know because he respects you and the second you told him you were uncomfortable he stopped. He seems like an amazing guy and i think you should deffinately stick with him. You can tell that he loves you for you and not to do stuff. It*s so weird b/c all of my relationships were bad (like gettin in my pants) til I met a guy like you found. We*ve broken up but he still treats me the same. Whatever you do stay with him. I can tell this relationship will last a really long time! If you have any more questions feel free to ask. n hun it wasn*t that long i liked it cus it was sweet haha. Well best of luck to you and him but i no you don*t need it!!

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(Rating: 5) aww thank you so much. i will definatly come to you for advice.. it really helped a lot
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