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Q: Hey Everyone! Well recently I discovered that the guy I've been crushing on for a month doesn't like me, because of the 5 yr age difference we have. Every single time I start thinking about him (which is pretty often) I feel siick to my stomach with the knowledge of me not being able to have him. I need to find an alternative that can replace him> meaning whenever I think about hm, I can just do something else that will get my mind off of him> My ? is what should that alternative thing be?? I honestly think that I'm in love with this guy I'm never going to be able to have. I need a cure to get over him and find some1 else that I like better. Please help I'm desperate!
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dont' do anything dumb or do something "reboundish" 5 years is pretty big though. just keep in mind that this WILL pass and you WILL eventually get over him. partially, i believe that you just like him because you want to try to get him (even though you know there's no chance of it). it's okay, that's human nature lol. i want what i can't have all the time. anyways! it's totally natural and normal. sometimes i just talk to my friends about it, i know they get tired of it after a while but hey, that's why they're friends. try reading or taking up a hobby. sometimes i just get out how i feel over a guy by expressing it by making pictures on my computer or writing stuff out on online- journals.
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Hey> Thnx 4 ur advice..i completely understand tht the age difference situation is a lot(since I'm 15 and he's 20). The sad part of it though was I did get him> meaning I hooked up w. him..but I can't have him as a bf which is making me depressed. I think I should def. try making a journal tho..Thnx. Xo.
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this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.
anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Texas Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: Vickiooos@hotmail.com Member Since: September 28, 2004 Answers: 221 Last Update: July 3, 2006 Visitors: 15462
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