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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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I dont really know what category this goes as so I guess I will put it under "spirituality".

I'm getting older, and I dont want to turn into those kind of brats who think their parents are nitties, and are trying to ruin their fun and that they dont understand them. I really dont. Though I just dont understand why they dont understand sometimes. I try to be good, but being the middle child is tough. I have a older sister, that can be a good friend and sometimes annoying, and a younger brother, that is 13 years younger than me. I dont know if Im jelous of him getting all the attention, but Im sick of being misunderstood and, well.. the middle child! I try not to act like Im upset, even though I am, by trying to be optimistic, but I am just upset about things I dont even know, and I try to act normal for others benefit. Sympathy bothers me, kind of. Also, if Im told to do something, and I was about to do it without being told, it just makes me not want to do it anymore. Sometimes I still wonder who I am, and I just dont know how to express it into words here. I always have fantasies of things that would by far come true, some involving magic (which I believe in) By the way, I dont take drugs, or smoke, etc. Also sometimes I get extremely.. well I cant think of a word for it. Cautious? Like when I turn off the light, I get scared and make sure that the light is turned off all the way, because I fear fires. And so on. I dont mean to blab, but, I just dont know. I SO do NOT want to be a pessimistic, and a depressed person, that gets so depressed that they kill themselves with a needle or something (which I think is extremely nasty and not worth it) and I will try to see the cup half full.

Er, Im not sure how you are supposed to answer this, since its not exactly some sort of question, but if you have any advice that may help me, then please, please, type away! :D

I know how you feel exactly, Im the middle child and my little brother is 10 years younger and he gets almost all the attention and Im JUST the built in babysitter. And I have my older brother who most of the time is a cool person to hang out with but sometimes he can be REALLY annoying and I wish I wasn't his sister. It is just part of being a teenager.

Parents arn't perfect and niether are you. No one is. So sometimes your parents are gonna get on your nerves and your gonna feel like they don't even know you anymore. And vica verca for you parents towards you. Once you are older you will get along with your parents and they will understand you better, (once you are past these teenage years.)

Its good that you are trying to be optimistic because some kids get frustrated and mad when this type of stuff happens and it makes it worse and that is how they end up on drugs.

I hope I helped you out! and just remember that it is all part of being a teenager and that it will pass up sooner or later. Good Luck with everything!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the great advice ^_^
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