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i used to be a cutter right? And at some times i still am. I went through a lot in my childhood and am just recoving from a consequential 3 years of depression. But thats not the problem its this: i have this crazy compulsion with picking at my skin. it has nothing to do with cutting, and i dont think it has anything to do with depression. Like, i do it all the time, even when im happy. theres no emotion at all attached to it, except sum kind of bizzare need, i guess. i cant help it. i did it like a little bit before, but no its so much worse! once i start i cant tear myself away. i make myself bleed. i cause scars and i hate it. Does anybody know anything about this? Anything similar? Any ideas? i'll rate high for good answers.

if you make yourself bleed and cause scars by picking at your skin, i'm pretty sure its just another form of SI (self injury)...even though you say you do it when your happy and there's no emotion tied into it...it may just simulate the feeling you had when you used to cut.

i would say google it. like, type in something like "forms of self mutilation/injury".

you could also try asking this question on the message boards at gURL.com. you have to like make an account, but its worth it.

hope i helped.

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