Hey. I recently recovered from depression with my medication. Still comes back sometimes, but im not really cutting any more. Im 15. If you have questions about anything, hell, ask me. I've been thru depression, I've been a cutter, I go to high school. Shoot.
Anyways, more about me... umm my name is alyx, im female...check out my xanga. Some feedback would be nice, not because i really care about any of this rating crap, but just because i want to know if my advice is being read....and if its helpful...or not. If you dont like advice i give you, dont get pissed off at me please. Im just a juvinile delienquent who cant spell, not god. Im not totally useless either.
My interests are philosophy, photography, writing, theology, and animals. My family is more then a little disfunctanal so i know how that feels. I value honesty. Sometimes Im blunt, but i try to help. Im not shocked easily. I definately dont try to be a perfect daughter, person, or anything else. I dont claim to. my morals are.... flexible. I do what i think is right by me. And sometimes im amazed because that ends up being higher then plenty of peoples.
The world would be a better place if everyone would just stop preaching at each other and do something useful like donate some money to homeless kids. Kids would learn better if teachers cared more about teaching and less about controlling everyone. Lying isn't necessarily always a bad thing. Killing someone nearly always is. Its impossible to draw a distinct line between good and bad, actions are not people, dont be cruel to animals. Think before you stick a loaded gun into your pocket. Dont buy your wife a vaccume for her anniversery. Dont feed cows meat, you'll start an epedemic. Like i said, Im not god. Its just called Common Sense, people.
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
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All things pass with time. its mature that you want to still be friends with him, sometimes that can be harder then just forgetting him. Any crush will eventually fade with time. In the mean time, keep your mind preoccupied so that you dont have time to think about it. Watch TV, read a book, do yoga, or call friends and see movies. The fact that you are still single only opens up more chances to do incredibly fun stuff with your friends or just by yourself. You are free to flirt with the cute guy you run into anywhere and not feel bad about it. You can have long girl night outs where you look through your yearbook and rate all the guys while you paint each other's toe nails. Remember that one day you will meet a totally goregeous guy who will love you truely and deeply for everything that you are. But dont throw urself at anyother guys either- take time to let it pass. After a while it wont hurt anymore to see him with a girl. it wont even matter. Be happy for him, but you know that he missed out. His loss. There are other fishes in the sea though, so dont grieve too long!
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