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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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Well, my sister is 16, and she's pregnant by her 20 year old boyfriend. I want to help her, I really do. She is about to turn 17 next month and she wants to move in with him. However, my mom told me that she wasn't going to let her and not to tell her that because she would get upset. So, I don't wanna upset her about it, so I am keeping my mouth shut.
I try to help her the best I can. If she wants something to drink, I'll get her something to drink, if she wants something to eat, I'll get her something to eat. However, it seems like whatever I do isn't good enough. She always complains that its too hot, or too cold, or she doesn't like it. She has the biggest mood swings ever. She cries constantly; when she's not crying she's screaming.
I just want to help her out so much. She's young and we have birth defect problems in our family. I want her pregnancy to go well. I just don't know how to help.

Signed,
Wants-To-Know

Pregnant women are naturally emotional. It's not her, or your, fault. It's probably stressful for her, too: being a teen AND pregnant.

Maybe if you get her something to eat/drink, be more specific. Like, if she asks for a soda, ask "What kind? Do you want it with ice?" Just remember that that it's not your fault.

You can also be there for her. Let her know that if she needs advice or just someone to talk to and get support from, you'll be there for her. Let her know that you love and care for her.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave a message in my inbox!
♥ Manders

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