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Q: He knows and got all upset and completely closed up. I did take care of my problem and got over my self. but i got so upet over this i lost it. i didnt do nething really tacks arent sharp or break the skin just hurts. i dont want to agian. should i apologize for saying "like hell u do" when he said "i love you" when he was signing off???
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i use to do the same things you did/do. so i understand, it is very hard to control your feelings sometimes. and when you said that, im sure you really hurt his feelings, even if he didnt show them like us girls do. i cant tell you that u "should" apologize for the things you said, because im not sure if you meant it. if you dont think he really loves you, then no dont say sorry for the things you mean. if you do think/know he loves you, then say sorry... it sounds like you two are close, and im glad he knows about the "issue".
its not good that you closed up when you told him, and it honestly doesnt matter what you use to hurt yourself, even if it is tacks, which arent "sharp" and "dont break the skin" it is still meaning to hurt yourself. i hope things get better... if you need any help... you no where to find it

thank u for ur time. i'll take ur advice. cause i think he does. im just touchy. ha. thanks

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hey, im Kristen... this is my advice column so dont be afraid to ask me ANY question that might be on your mind. im a very understanding person, and i am easy to talk to. i enjoy playing volleyball, street hockey, and i "play" football with the boys... i have my share of problems too, im not perfect, far from it. i just dont have a lot of people to talk to, and i thought it would be nice if i could at least help some people out.

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