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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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A~ex b/f
B~b/f

last night i got a text msg from B saying "WTF u n A enjoy each other...i didn't do nething to you your so fucked up" i called him asking wut he was talkin about n he said that i was cheating on him with A but i'm not! n i never have...but i think he still believes that i am when i'm not...i'm pretty mad at him for saying i was fucked up...should i break up with him n stay friends? or should i give him another chance even tho he said i was fucked up? HELP!

I think that you should break up with him. A guy shouldn't ever say that to you, it's pretty disrespectful.
Also, your boyfriend should trust you. A relationship without trust isn't worthwhile, because in the long run, it just won't work.

You deserve a guy who respects you and trusts you, not a guy who accuses you of doing things you haven't and who calls you bad things.

You can try telling him that you would never cheat on him in a calm way (and also ask him why he even got the idea that you cheated on him in the first place), but if he doesn't believe you, then you should just break up with him, in my opinion. I think that you deserve better than this guy, but it's up to you if you want to ask him what's up and save the relationship or if you want to just break it off now.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders

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