last night i got a text msg from B saying "WTF u n A enjoy each other...i didn't do nething to you your so fucked up" i called him asking wut he was talkin about n he said that i was cheating on him with A but i'm not! n i never have...but i think he still believes that i am when i'm not...i'm pretty mad at him for saying i was fucked up...should i break up with him n stay friends? or should i give him another chance even tho he said i was fucked up? HELP!
You deserve a guy who respects you and trusts you, not a guy who accuses you of doing things you haven't and who calls you bad things.
You can try telling him that you would never cheat on him in a calm way (and also ask him why he even got the idea that you cheated on him in the first place), but if he doesn't believe you, then you should just break up with him, in my opinion. I think that you deserve better than this guy, but it's up to you if you want to ask him what's up and save the relationship or if you want to just break it off now.
Volleyballgrlof2010 answered Saturday June 4 2005, 3:00 pm: Hi! I think that you should probably break up with him! I think this because it has happened to me before also! And he said that it would never happen again .... but it did! and so i just dont wunt u to get hurt like i did!
Mackenzie answered Saturday June 4 2005, 2:51 pm: Wow that's pRettie bad!! If *YOU* know you have always been faithful to him, then that's the bottom line. TRy ReassuRing him of youR feelings foR him, that's Really all you can do. Ask him why he feels that way, and see if theRe's anything you could possibly do a tad bit diffeRently to pRevent these feelings in the futuRe. WhateveR you do... make *ABSOLUTELY* shoRe to tell him how you definitely DO NOT appReciate his jumping to conclusions, and the accusations he's thRown at you. Honestly, you can not *MAKE* him tRust you; you just have to hope he does. And if foR whateveR Reason he simply can not bRing himself to.. then what's the point of caRRying the Relationship out any fuRtheR???? As heaRt wRenching as it is... that's the tRuth of the matteR.. I wish you the best; hopefully I've been of some help heRe! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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