about

Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

advice

I have a friend and she is one of my best freinds and she is really nice when hanging around me but when she starts hanging out with one of these popular girls at school she starts calling people retards and idiots and gay. we hate this one girl at school and we talk about her because she gets on our nerves. after that, the next day right after she has talked about her she goes behind my back and hangs out with her how do i get to know if she goes behind my back and talks about me and just hangs around me because she wants to tell people what i say and stuff that i do????

To me, this girl seems insecure. She wants to become popular and put other people down to make herself feel better, even if she hurts her friends in the process.

Talk to her when you two are alone. Ask her why she's doing those things to you. Also, let her know that you're worried about your friendship. Ask her if she cares about your friendship anymore.

DO NOT try talking to her when she's with the "Popular" people. Also, be calm. Don't yell at her or anything. And don't be too harsh.

If she's not willing to change, then she isn't a true friend. You deserve a friend who is good to you, not a backstabber.

I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!

♥ Manders

EDIT: Thanks so much for the feedback! I'm flattered!

[view]

(Rating: 5) OMG that was really good advice and i hope you keep going onto this site and helping people i loved your and if you could i would give you a 10
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker