Hi everyone... I've got a Psychology degree so I like to think that i know a bit about how people think and why they do the things they do- maybe i don't know a thing, make up your own minds! Also i work with a youth group of girls aged 10-14 so that helps too! Anyway ask me anything no problem too big or too small and I'll do my best...
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I am 15/f and I haven't had a crush in 2 years! Lately, I've been thinking, and I don't know if I am bi or straight! I want to be straight ..because everyone else is..and because it seems like the right way to live..but then my mind tells me that I could be bi..I am sooo CONFUSED! I really don't know what to do because I can't tell anyone! I mostly have girl-friends but I've never been attracted to any of them..sometime's I look at their butts and boobs..(but isn't that a normal thing that girls usually notice about eachother??) I am attracted to guys..sometimes when I saw a hot guy, I stare and tell my friends "Wow he's hot!" I'd like to think I'm straight but my mind keeps telling me I'm bi! I'm so confused! (link)
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Yeah its perfectly normal for girls to look at other girls when they're straight, the difference is when you're actually ATTRACTED to them. It sounds to me as if you're just going through a confusing phase in your life and maybe a major reason for why you're thinking like this is because you haven't had a crush in so long and therefore you think there's something wrong. And there isn't. This probably isn't much help but time will sort all this out. You'll work through this in your own time and the time will come when you really understand your sexuality- promise!! Good luck
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