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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do

You told him no, you said you weren't ready for it. You were raped, and you can file a statuatory rape report against him and have him arrested. Of course, you will have to go through tests and blood samples, to prove that he actually had intercourse with you.. and you will have to go through lie detector tests (and so much more)but if you want justice, it will be worth it.

You should move out of that house. Move back in with your parents, or grandparents, or even to an orphanage. Whatever you do, just get out of there. Obviously, you're not exactly safe. I'd go to the police station and tell them... that way you're out of the house, in case your boyfriend decides to walk in at that time. You don't even have to file the report if you don't want to, just get out of there, and break it off with this creep.

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(Rating: 4) but the only thing with going to court i dont want people telling me i asked for it .
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