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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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Today at lunch we had these chicken nuggets in a gravy kinda sauce.It was really messy and I went to eat one and my so called friend shoved it in my mouth.It was all over my face and I got so pissed off at her.I kept saying to her` that was really mean, i would never do anything like that to you` I mean how could she do something so cruel to someone who is her friend?! We always get in arguments, but sometimes she can be nice. I can never get her to apoligize though, even when she does the damage I end up apoligizing.It makes me feel weak that I gotta give into her, so what should I do? She makes it seem like I'm being overly sensitive but a while back she could have done anything to me and I wouldn't of cared.I'm just sick of being treated the way she treats me...

I know people like this, so I speak from experience here.

If you want to keep the friendship, then I say you should go up to her while she's alone and talk to her. Tell her that you don't appreciate that she's treating you like that, and that if she doesn't stop, that you shouldn't be friends anymore, since friends are supposed to hold you up, not bring you down.

Or, if you're sick of her altogether, I would just let her know that if she's gonna treat you like she has, then you don't wanna be her friend. Ignore her from then on.

You don't deserve to be treated like that! Stand up for yourself. You'll feel so much better.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*

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