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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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Ok im 13. I have a boyfriend but..i always so nervous around him, like i dont know what to say and i dont want to say something stupid or embarrasing. We aren't in the same class and we dont live near eachother so we don't even really see eachother much. Then in school he won't come over to me and i can never find him and when i do see him he's always with this girl Deena and her boyfriend Jeff. I really wish i wasn't soo nervous to talk to him and we could be closer and hold hands and hug. What should i do?
Signed ~Lemontwist

I'd probably talk to him more... he sounds kind of shy. And he's your boyfriend, so he probably wouldn't be all 'uh, I hate you, go away.' .. and seriously, you're always going to be nervous about talking to someone you like... just push it to the back of your mind. Invite him to go some place with you, and if you want to get 'closer' make the first move.

At least say hi to him in the hallway.. as long as Deena has a boyfriend, she shouldn't be much of a problem/care.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks tht helped A LOT! your great! thank you sooo much.
Lemontwist
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