First off, it's pretty sweet that you didn't have to go through the enourmously awkward task of telling this guy about how you feel yourself. I'm impressed that you're cool about him knowing. The first step is knowing.

Secondly, well, it's easier said than done, but as to how you should talk to him? Act naturally. Don't try to impress him with something your not, embarassment in these situations comes from the notion that you absolutely need to impress this guy--and you don't, so don't worry about it.

Also, when it comes to you liking him--which might be a difficult topic: don't eel around it, but don't try to bring it up after every sentence, either. If he asks, tell him the truth. And also, if you know how and are confident enough: flirt! It's quite simple once you get the hang of it.

All and all, though, my best advice remains that you be the wonderfully fantastic person that you always are, and from there a relationship may develop or it may not.

Thank you soo much. Your advice will relly help me. I see him today and I will keep your advice in mind. Thanks again!!!!!!!!
~Linda

I am lately known as the siberian headcheese of all meat bi-products, if life were the deli section of a supermarket.

Except not really.

I reside in a little house in extreme-northern california, and sometimes I come out and play the trombone. I am also seventeen. And a bookworm hockey playing extraordinare.

I suck at these things, really. So just take my word for it.

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