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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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im a female 16 and me & my bf have been on & off for 2 years now we are long distance and it started out as a summer romance at the beach because my family spends the summer up there but turned into love. ok im madley in love with my boyfreind & when i talked to him the other day he said his freind came over and told him he should take this one girl he dated while we were seperated to the prom. i asked him if he was and he said he wasnt going to and he told his freind no but im kinda scared do you think hes still seeing this girl? do you think mabey he was hinting that he wanted to go to the prom and that mabey we should go? please tell me what you think.

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(added Sunday May 08 2005, 1:34 pm. Additional information will not be displayed on your advice column.)
and if you ansewer you should go to prom with him well how how do i ask him really with out asking him flattly cuz im kinda scared just to come out and say it.

Has he been totally honest and trustworthy in the past? If he has, then I doubt he's still seeing the other girl. I bet his friend suggested that your b/f should go with this other girl to the prom because you two's relationship is long distance.

I think that you two should go to the prom. The prom only happens a few times in your life. I think that you should go with your boyfriend and have fun.

Maybe you can hint that you wanna go like this "Prom sounds like it would be so much fun to go to!" or something like "What do you think about going to the prom?" (I know you said you are scared to come out and say it, but you can still try to ask that.) or something like that. You could give him hints or come out and say it. I would try to build up the courage to come out and say it if he doesn't get the hints.

If you do go to prom, have fun and be safe!

I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
*Manders*

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