vchicka15's advice column

I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...

What should I do?

I think you should definately keep in touch with him. It's hard to find good, nice guys out there and you found one. Who cares what your friends think, this isnt about what their opinions are its about what you feel. Not being able to see him alot isnt a big thing, you guys wont get tired of eachother and your relationship will just get stronger and stronger. Looks don't matter.. I liked a guy with freckles and red hair.. if it wasnt for his personality hed be ugly and no girl would like him. But he was so sweet and his personality was the greatest, everyone liked him! dont worry about your friends.. the guy seems like a great person ;-).. hope it helps

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. He's an indie-guy.

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