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ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer
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First of all, I think it was a little bit harsh to start asking these questions to her friends. This is almost like betrayal for her: She feels as though they are judging her in all manners, not just by her looks. Also, you seem to be doing the same thing- I understand the fact that you are prettier than she is on the outside, but remember that when you talk about things like "hotness" it's starting to become personal and it's making her feel self-concious about her appearance. I think the only thing that's wrong with her is that she feels really hurt right now, and she wants to turn to her friends but she feels like she can't because they're judging her by her appearance. If I were you, I would go tell her that it's not appearance that matters, but what's inside, and that you are sorry for what you said. That should solve everything. Good luck.
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i never even said anything rude to her she is my best friend i was just wondering y she might be doing that DUH!
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