State it bluntly. She's lying to both of them either way. If she really cares about your boyfriend (and who knows, it's entirely possible that she does!) then it's recommended that she break up with Lee because otherwise she's just lying to him about her feelings and being a jerk. And if Lee and your boyfriend are best friends, he'll be pretty mad at her for leading him on. Don't take it from the perspective of his boyfriend, but as her friend. Tell her the same thing you would tell anyone in that situation, 'if you don't have feelings for him, don't go out with him'.

If jealousy is another component, realize that your boyfriend chose YOU not her. Talk to her about how uncomfortable it makes you feel to have her flirting with him right in front of you and ask her nicely if she will stop because he's your boyfriend and you don't appreciate that in your friendship.

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