Don't ever apologize for writing and asking for help. That is what most of us are here for, to give you advice to help you out.

The only suggestion I have is to talk to your parent's. If you are closer to one parent over the other, try talking to them first. Alone and in private. Let them know how you are feeling. Express to them your emotions and feelings as clear and as articulate as possible. Avoid whining or raising your voice. When you speak calmly too people, they take in more of the conversation. Let your parent know tha you feel excluded and left out in some ways. Explain to them that you feel as if they don't pay enough attention to you and you want to know why. Parents are human too, and most often, they don't realize that the way they are acting is hurting one of their children. Your parent's would never do anything to hurt you intentionally. Talking to them is the only thing that will fix this problem.

THANK YOU SO MUCH!

I am a 22 year old mother of two that has had to grow up a lot faster then her years. I have been married for four years, but now am seperated from my significant other due to lack of his being able to handle a mature relationship. I can relate to almost anyone, and have been sought out, both online and off, for my advice. I answer all questions truthfully and honestly. If I don't know an answer to a question or I think other resources would be helpful, then I go into researh mode until I find an answer or the proper resource. I aspire to be a life coach in the future, because I like helping people make decisions to make their life better for their future. I am here not only to answer advice questions on this site, but to also chat with you if you feel like you need a more indepth one-on-one help.

Here are some of the guidelines I go by when answering advice questions:

• I am always truthful in any advice I give.
  
• I would never give anyone any advice that I would not follow myself.
  
• I take into consideration your feelings when answering questions, but I will not sugar coat anything. If you are wrong, then you are wrong and I will tell you so.
  
• If I cannot answer a question to the best of my ability, then I will point you to someone who can, or I will research my butt off until I find a helpful solution for you.

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