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Q: ok i have this boyfriend and his soo awesome! we have been daten for 2weeks and we had sex last night! i've been "talking" with him since feb. but sometimes i feel like he doesn't care about me that much! and his always kind of mad at me..but i know his not cuz he got kicked outta his house 2weeks ago and he has to find a place to stay like everynight so it's not like i can talk to him...but he is pretty good about calling me and letten me know where he is staying at...that is if theres a phone around! but for some reason i'm so worried about him..i'm always woundering where is at and what his doing and who his with...he graduated last yr and i'm only in 10th...so when i'm at school that is when i worry...he has the friend that i don't like to much but yet his cool i don't like my boyfriend hanging out with him because i don't trust my boyfriend with him my boyfriend knows that i don't i like him with him...because i feel like his going to cheat on me when he is with his friend! i just don't know what to do about out relationship...cuz i do like him alot ((like not love)) and he gave me a promise braclett promiseing that he would never hurt me!!
i'll rate!
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I am going to be blunt with you, and I don't care about the rating, because what I am about to say is going to be blunt and harsh.
Why would you sleep with a guy after only dating for two weeks? You said so yourself that you don't love him and that you feel like he doesn't care about you that much. If you have been having these feelings toward him, then why would you have sex with him? To please him? To make him happy? or To make him not be mad at you all of the time?
Right now, your boyfriend will not be able to show you the attention that you need because he has too much stress going on in his life right. First of all, he doesn't know where he will be staying from day-to-day. I am sure that takes more precedent then your feelings.
If you have to wonder about what he is doing and who he is with all of the time, then your relationship is all wrong.
You need to seriously reevaluate your relationship with this guy. There are too many ifs here. You are only in the 10th grade and you have too much stress on you. Whenever you get a chance to have a serious talk with your boyfriend, then you nee to ask him how he feels about you. Truthfully. And tell him exactly how you feel about him. Ask him what he is willing to contribute to the relationship. If he doesn't give you a good answer, then you need to let him go.
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the sex ? you asked yes to all them!! i liked your advice the most...cuz i like your honesty!!
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I am a 22 year old mother of two that has had to grow up a lot faster then her years. I have been married for four years, but now am seperated from my significant other due to lack of his being able to handle a mature relationship. I can relate to almost anyone, and have been sought out, both online and off, for my advice. I answer all questions truthfully and honestly. If I don't know an answer to a question or I think other resources would be helpful, then I go into researh mode until I find an answer or the proper resource. I aspire to be a life coach in the future, because I like helping people make decisions to make their life better for their future. I am here not only to answer advice questions on this site, but to also chat with you if you feel like you need a more indepth one-on-one help.
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- I would never give anyone any advice that I would not follow myself.
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- If I cannot answer a question to the best of my ability, then I will point you to someone who can, or I will research my butt off until I find a helpful solution for you.
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