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Q: ok, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a GF. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care cuz i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore cuz he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im gonna have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm, id ont really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help i.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana
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okay, you asked alot of things, so i have alot of answers.
1. There are things you can do to get over him. Hang out with friends, go out with a guy back in japan, eat chocolate, just go on living life the way you normally would've
2. yes, you should try to get over him, because it sounds like (to me anyway) that he isn't going to be your bf, he just wants to sleep with you.
3. NO, you should not sleep with him, because doing so will probably not get him to be your bf, becasue he's already told you he doesn't want to break up w/ his gf, and besides, he is 4 years older than you
4. I can't say what is going to happen to you, but i can guess. If you do see him again (i don't know if you guys made plans, or you might accidently hopefully see him again), he might've moved on, or be happier w/ his gf. i mean, there's a chance that, over the year, he broke up with her, but i dont know
5. I realize you only had four questions, but i'm just going to summarize it, becasue it was really long (sorry about that). I don't think he's right for you. It seems he's just using you, and all he wants is too sleep with you! I mean, he's 4 years older than you! Do you really think he'd keep you as a gf while in college? (not to sound mean) Besides, he already has a gf. All you can really do is try to get over him. I hope i helped!
Oh, btw, i looove your name! It sounds really awesome! Mariana! Lol, just thought I'd tell you.
Hope everything works out for the best!
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Thank you for being so honest with your advice! It really did make a difference..people have told me before to get over him, but i never really realized that´that's the best thing to do until i read your answer. Thanx!! (K)
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I like giving advice, so ask me. But if you have a stupid question, i'll give you a stupid answer! No really, try me!
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 29 Last Update: April 13, 2005 Visitors: 3522
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