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Q: Alright heres the story ... I had to break up with the man I love becuase he cheated on me ... I still really want to be with him though but i'm staying away form that for now. We talk online all the time and on the phone, he says hes really sorry he had to loose me to a girl he doesnt even like. Well I recently asked my mom if he could come and visit me over the summer for two weeks and she said maybe, yes its an internet relationship but dont think about that cuase I know hes not a creep trust me I'm so paranoid about that stuff well anyways what I wanna know is should I have him come up here? We both really want to see each other and I know we will be making out the whole time and i know he still loves me he didnt even ask the girl out she asked him.
I'm almost 16 and he will be 16 in a few days.
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I have a lot of experience in infidelity, and even though your boyfriend apologized to you, that doesn't mean that he won't do it again. You have to question his integrity and judge for yourself if this is someone you want to trust with your heart. You are making a smart choice by staying away from him for now. I know that you have to be hurting right now, and you have to heal before you can even think about pursuing a relationship with him again. The choice for him to come up is one that you will have to think about long and hard. If you think by seeing him, it will make your relationship stronger, then go for it. But while he is up there, you should talk to him face-to-face and tell him exactly how you feel and let him know that you will not tolerate anymore cheating from him from that point on.
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great advice ... thank you
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I am a 22 year old mother of two that has had to grow up a lot faster then her years. I have been married for four years, but now am seperated from my significant other due to lack of his being able to handle a mature relationship. I can relate to almost anyone, and have been sought out, both online and off, for my advice. I answer all questions truthfully and honestly. If I don't know an answer to a question or I think other resources would be helpful, then I go into researh mode until I find an answer or the proper resource. I aspire to be a life coach in the future, because I like helping people make decisions to make their life better for their future. I am here not only to answer advice questions on this site, but to also chat with you if you feel like you need a more indepth one-on-one help.
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