I can really relate to your problem (besides the boyfriend sharing). No one should be here to judge you, and the first thing I thought of when reading this was not that you are a slut. Every relationship is different, and yours just happens to include more people. (Here is a LiveJournal.com group that might interest you: www.livejournal.com/community/polyamory. It is a community full of people that are going through the same relationship situation as you.) If you are attracted to her, then you should talk to her and see if the feelings are mutual between the two of you. I would hold off on any move making until you find out how she feels about you first. I know of a lot of relationships like yours (with the three of you) that work out very well. Some couple-groups have been together for years. I hope everything turns out good for you in the end.

thanks a bunch

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