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So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)
So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say. Also, I dont want to scare him off being that he's a quiet kind of guy.
Any help is greatly appreciated.
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Hi Sweetie,
...Yeah, nice guys are hard to find. I agree. ...You used to see him at school... you want to aproach him but you don't know how without scaring him off but at the same time making him slightly aware you might be interested in him. OK, so that's what we have to work with here.
Before I give you any advice I think it is only fair you are aware my advice may not be as valid to you in this field since I got dumped a few weeks ago. My advice to you will only be a well-intended suggestion. It is completely p to you if you chose to follow it or no or even listen to it or not.
A good approach is... okay, go buy something at the grocery store or... soemtime that you see him try this line, "hey, you look familiar. Didn't I used to see you around at school?" Try that line IF you see him at the grocery story. If you DON'T see him at the grocery store then ask him "hey, don't you work at the grocery store?" Then make small friendly conversation like "yeah, I thought I knew you from somewhere. My name is (whatever your name is)." Ask him for his name... say hi... if he continue the converstion then keep it going. If he doesn't say much then say "okay, I have to go. See you around." Then say hi to him when you see him.
With this approach he wont't be scared away. Also, he'll start noticing you if he hadn't already, and if he had and he is interested in you... then you know what may happen.
Good luck!!! Take care, have a nice day ~Blessed be...
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Thank you so much. I love your advice. I wouldnt trust my problems with anyone else. Thanks again.
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