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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
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Dear,
First of all I do not want to sound disparaging but he has a girlfriend so you will have to wait if you want to get back together. I have two theories one is that he misses your company as a friend so he is slowly trying to build a friendship because he wants you in his life but not as a girlfriend. Or of course he might have remembered what it is like to be with you and he wants to get back together. However I think it is most likely to be the first one because if he wanted to get back together with you he would be free in the first place.
About him not giving an answer to the question it is possible that he saw this as a trick question and he did not want to offend you, but there is a chance that it was his way of saying yes.
I think the best thing to do is to gradually build a friendship that could later become something more. You two should start talking to each other again because otherwise nothing will happen and you will just have this odd tension between the two of you. Only time will tell if he really wants to get back together but I think there is a very good chance he does. Whatever you do take it slowly and do not rush him.
Good luck!
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thnxz for telling the truth and not just what i want to hear! Your so right about me not being able to do anything because of his girlfriend. Im just gonna start talkin to him nad see whrere things go.
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