my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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Sorry this is so long i'll rate 5's. Today during lunch me and my friends jenna and roquel were sitting around talking, and jenna said she hasn't gotten her period in a long time and is worried that she might be pregnant. Jenna thought that i knew about this already, so she was like roquel where did u go to get your abortion?and roquel was like not everyone knows about that jenna. roquel wouldnt tell me that because she was in my law class, and i debated against abortion so she knows how i feel about it. even thought im completely against abortion, i dont judge my friends so thats why i didnt even say anything to her.but now everytime i see her i get sick to my stomach thinking she would actually do something like that.i know its none of my buisiness so dont tell me that, but how do i get over feeling so ashamed of her?its to the point i wanna smack her for being so stupid!because i cant say anything about not having sex, because ive had sex myself but i used the pill AND a condom, so if ppl did that there would only be a 1 percent chance of getting pregnant, so i cant believe she was dumb enough to get herself if that situation where she could get pregnant, knowing her who has done lots of bad stuff, she probably gave in when the guy said he didnt wanna use a condom.i really need advice about what to do, because she is a good friend and i dont wanna lose her as a friend even though i feel so different towards her now. (link)
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well you said you arnt judging her but thats exactly what you are doing. abortion is a common problem and im sure she had no other choice. maybe she didnt want to go through the pain of birth and maybe she forgot to use a condom. its her choice that is now in the past. you cant do anything about it. if you like her as a friend you'll just get over it. if you dont then your going to have a lot of trouble with judging your friends. it might have been a mistake but i doesnt matter now. stop judging people by their choices
o yea this is wat u said... Sorry this is so long i'll rate 5's....yea well u freakin gave me a one u brat...sry i even bothered!!!!
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if she didnt want to go through the pain of childbirth, she shoulda kept her panties on.and forgetting to use a condom IS HER FAULT.
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