I always give honest answers and try my best to help. You are welcome to ask me any questions that you have. I never criticize people and I always try to look at things from other people's point of view before I answer a question.
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: February 15, 2005
Answers: 15
Last Update: June 25, 2006
Visitors: 3364
Main Categories:
Friendship
Work/School Relationships
Love Life
View All
Favorite Columnists
karenR
Mandee
HyperactiveMiss
|
| |
|
My friend is jealous of me and i didn't think it would be a problem like wahooo she's jealous of me doesn't make a difference. But then i told another one of my friend's that she was jealous of me and like would be at different moods like one day she be sooo nice and caring and loving adn the next day she would be like ignoring me hangiung around other people and like telling me stuff that really hurt me. My other friend said that it is jealously and that she is trying to get me mad at her and then she'll use that against me. I don't believe she'll do that but i jut don't understand her anymore. I feel she might be trying to replace me. I sometimes don't sleep or eat becuse i thinking about what lifew would be with out her and i miss her so much when i try and hang around different people or if i don't talk to her... i don't want to lose her but maybe it might be for the best if she is gonna be really mean and hurt me alot i really reeally don't want to do that. Help me what should i do...?? (link)
|
Dear,
I know how disturbing it is when good friends pull away and it’s easy to just point the finger at them and return the favor. However sometimes we need to look closely, it’s possible that your friend is under the bad influence of some of her other friends or she just needs to be mean to somebody. I will explain, sometimes people have the need to get their mean nature out, but at the same time they don’t want to offend anybody so they use their friends. I had a friend who was usually sad and she wasn’t exactly the Cool type so she couldn’t intimidate the people she disliked and what she used to do was say mean things to her friends and pretended it was a joke. Don’t forget that her actions might be a cry for help, not just a change of mind about you. So what I suggest you do is talk to your friend and ask her why she’s being mean to you and tell her that you care about her and that you don’t want to loose her as a friend. Whatever you do don’t go pulling away before you’ve tried talking and helping her. After all friendship is a golden gift.
|
|