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i am like madly in love with my best friend. we've been friends for about 5 1/2 years. he's the coolest person ever and he is so nice and so cute and just generally amazing. pretty much everyone says he likes me too but i'm sort of afraid to say anything or make the first move. and if something does happen, then im afraid to loose the great relationship that we already have. help? (link)
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Hi Sweetie,
Before you decide on what you will do you will have to decide on what is more important to you. Is... your feelings for him stronger than... your fear of being rejected.... would you rather not loose him as a friend... or would you rather be his gilrfriend...? Those are just example questions you should consider. If you decide that you cannot risk your friendship by making the first move and making it clear that you like him you might want to get a friend to encourage him to ask you out... and if he likes you back he defenitely will. Of course, thats risky because he may not do it even if he likes you for the same reasons you don't do it. Anyway, if you decide your feelings for him are a lot stronger then I suggest you communicate your feelings for him and ask him for a chance to see if a relationship would work out. If he's afraid of loosing you as a friend try to send him the message that you want to be friends no matter what.
Good luck! ~Blessed Be...
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