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15/f i was with a guy for about a month and then i broke up with him. then another guy that i went out with in 7th grade told me he likes me. i told him that i needed to get to know him better first and that i wanted to take things slwo cause i just broken up with a guy. so now we're getting to know each other, but hes very shy. i'm shy too, but i try not to be too much to give him confidence. but hes still very shy. so this wouldnt really be a problem, but i still like my ex. i didnt break up with him because i didnt like him anymore, it was for another reason (he didnt cheat on me or anything liek that). so i want to talk to my ex about what i think (and i'm kinda scared to do that and i dont know what to say). but i dont want to hurt the other guy. hes nice and everything, but i dont think i'll ever like him in that way, one of the reasons being that hes not very comfortable with me. i'm confused about what i feel and about what i should do. could anyone help me? (link)
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If you guys aren't comfortable together it's best that you don't hook up. Being shy is one thing but being totally uncomfortable around someone is no way to build a relationship. And it's not your fault he's shy guys at that age usually. I'm sure he won't be sad or even mad that you don't want to go out w/ him, I'm not trying to sound mean but the truth is, he may be releaved.
Now about your other problem, I really think you should go for it! If you like him and things ended on good terms I'm sure he'd wanna be w/ u! Just call him, talk to him on the comp, write him a letter, what ever is easiest for you. Tell him you've been re thinking things and you think ya'll should be together! He'll proably be really excited.
Hope I helped! Come to me with any other questions!
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hey, thanks for taking time to answer my question.
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