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Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.

Do u want to take pictures of him naked? If you don't then I think he's just trying to get something out of it. If he has clothes on then you can't see his body right? Sounds like he's overreacting, just ask him a couple more times and tell him he can get pics of you, just not naked. If he doesn't agree then you could borrow a friend and take pics of him. Good luck!
lyds*

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(Rating: 5) As to your first question, only half...the top half. Lol. He's not trying to get much out of it, I don't think. As for the friend idea, this was specifically for me to get good shots of my boyfriend...good idea, though. Thanks. =)
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