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Hi! My name is Rick (Eric is my middle name) Im an average guy who has been lucky enough to raise 5 wonderful children. 4 girls and a boy, and Im proud how they all turned out. I don't know what, but I must have done something right LOL.
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NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!! (link)
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First of all I dont agree with most here that Guys "Have to look at porn" its a choice they make. Granted 95% of guys make that choice with the wrong head but it is a choice they make, especially if they are teen boys. Horomones are much stronger than reason.
However, to answer your question, One way to look at it is this...Does it matter where he gets hungry as long as he comes home for dinner? The important thing and I think what concerns you most is honesty in the relationship. I would talk to him and ask him to be honest about it in the future. If he feels its going to hurt your feelings He is going to cover it up. Just understand that a teen boy looking at porn in no way means he doesnt have real feelings for you.
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Thank you very much! You're one of the few people who is actually quite a bit on my side. I appreciate your words and thoughts very mcuh and I'll be coming to you for any advice I may need in the future. PS: He doesn't look at pron anymore... the last time he did was a few days after we met.
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