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A few days ago..i had a small fight with one of my good friends which is cleared up now. However, during that fight..one of my more distant friends who gossips and gets into EVERYTHING said to the friend i was fighting with "oh dont worry, melissas always like that" (saying i get angry and have a lot of outbursts)This isnt true..and im sick of her getting into peoples business! I want to confront her because she talks behind everybody's back then when she talks to you face to face she pretends everything is ok. I dont want to start an arguement..but this is just annoying me. She gets involved with everything!!!!!! How should i confront her..or should i not confront her?

You could try to confront her, but you might just lose a friend and she most likely won't change. No matter how you put it, she'll get mad. You don't have to be tight with her, there's a girl like that on my tennis team and I just think it's funny, but at the same time she doesn't talk about me. My advice, I wouldn't confront her. But might not want to be as close as you were, (i wasn't sure if by distant you ment awayness or how close you are).

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