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first of all, my boyfriend and i have been together for two years, and about three months. i love him with all my heart, and i know he loves me as well. well, last month i was going through his sidekick and i went through his text messages. i wasnt looking for anything particular really, i just wanted to read my texts that i sent him. i came across a message from another female, and i guess he was trying to talk to her. i approached him right away about it. he told me that, yes, he hangs out with other girls, drinks with them, etc. im already aware of that, and thats perfectly fine with me. but then he told me that when he sees a cute female, that he does try to get her number for the challenge, and flirts with them. he said he's never done anything sexual with any other girl, he just likes to get to know other people. i let him know that bothers me and that if he still wants to be with me, he needs to stop approaching other females because thats unneccesary when he already has me. he said he'd stop. i really love my boyfriend, and i used to trust him, but after some of this stuff, its hard to trust him. im kind of stuck, and i dont know what to do because i find myself worrying about him cheating on me and things along that line. so.. i'd like to know, what would you do if you came across this situation. thanks. sorry about the length ;\
I'd say stop worrying about it. Your guy sounds like a great guy and just acts like a typical guy. He said he'd stop. The thing that surprised me is that he actually told you that he likes to get girls numbers and thinks they're cute, he's obviously a very truthful guy. I dont know any guys who would admit to what they did, I think he sounds pretty trustworthy and you shouldn't worry. Worrying about other girls is what kills a relationship. The only time you need to start worrying is when he withdraws from you or if you find anything else. Don't worry he sounds great, truthful, and trustworthy. Goodluck, I hope he's good to you.
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot ;]