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ok so i have this problem.. i like this guy. i used to REALLY REALLY like him, but then i just thought he was kindda cute. Well, after i had settled to "he's just cute" i started liking this other guy, and he liked me too. We talked all the time, and i told him about the other guy that i liked. I told him "Yeah, I used to like him, but there wasnt a chance for us to get together so i kindda got over him." So he thought that,ya know, i didnt like the first guy. Well, wrong. sumthin happened the other day, i dunno what it just kindda clicked.. the first guy..omg i just...WHOooo I am totally diggin him!! anyways.. my problem is that i dont know if i should tell the other guy that i like the first guy.. i mean, we flirt and are friends, but im feelin like i dont like him THAT way anymore :/ he thought that i was over the first guy, and now i know that im am definately NOT over him, i am very much fallen for him!! i feel like i shouldnt tell guy2 that i like guy1 again b/c i told him i was over him.. ya know? i dont want him to be mad or something like that.. i dont know what to do im so confused..PLEASE HELP ME!!

~*torn n confused*~




I'm kinda in the same situation right now, and I told my guy2 that I didn't like guy1 except for whenever I see him..which is still the case, but I still think you should tell guy2 what you're feeling, because it sort of seems like you're just wanting him for the attention now that you don't like him anymore. You really can't help who you fall for and who you don't, so as hard as it will be, I think you SHOULD tell guy2 exactly what you told me..I really hope I helped in some way or another, that's a tough one :/ Goodluck hun! You can IM me if you need more help..or ya know, JUST TO TALK. :]

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