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Okay i had my winter dance tonight and this guy asked me to dance. I was speechless and i couldn't say anything. Then he goes "you know what fine, whatever" and i'm like "no come back! Okay i will dance with you i will i'm so sorry!" but, he just ignored me. I had my friends go and ask him to dance for me but he ignored them. I went over and said "Okay i am really sorry and i wish i could take it back but will you dance with me?" He walked away and i knew i had really hurt him. My other friend went over and asked him why he was being like this. He said " you want me to just say okay and dance with her?" and she goes "yea just please she feels like crap come on. And he just screamed a her saying "TOO BAD!" Then i felt it the pain he had felt. I was so sorry but he wouldn't let me tell him. He just ran back into the croud. I looked for him all over but couldn't find him. Then the last dance came and i started to cry. He saw me and sad "now you know how i feel" and went away. Now i feel like CRAP!! i am so sad, and mad and i should have said yes. I am so sorry i need to tell him that but i dont have him # or his e-mail or anyother thing i could reach him by. I feel bad but i dont know why. If it was just a regular guy i would have been okay but its not it was one of my friends and i am so sad. Do i like him? What can i do for him to forgive me? Will he forgive me? Should i ask him to dance at our new dance coming up? i have no idea! Please Help!!!! I'll rate high!!!!! Thanks alot! xoxoxoxo HunnieBuns (even the advice columnist needs help) Just like me!

I think he over reacted. You tried to tell him what went on but he wouldn't listen, so it's really his fault. If he really did like you then he wouldn't want to see you crying! I'd wait till monday and talk to him again, if he blows you off then try to forget about it! Hope I helped & good luck!
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