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About Me: Hello & welcome to my advice column! My name is Jennifer and I'm 19 years old. I'm married to my high school sweetheart, Eric, as of 06.09.07! ♥ He is in the United States Navy, and right now we are stationed in Virginia Beach. Eric is my best friend, and my hero..I love my sailor! I also love helping people and giving advice on all kinds of things- I'm a very good listener. I'm in my sophomore year of college, majoring in psychology, and will eventually be going to med school to be a psychiatrist. Feel free to leave anything in my inbox. I'm always looking to meet new people and give advice!!

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I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks!

This probably isn't what you want to hear- but you definately need to get over him. It's wrong of him to keep you waiting while he goes off and does stuff with other girls. There's so many guys out there who would be better for you and could make you feel special and loved. I know it's hard now, but things will look up. Once you find the right guy you will for sure know, and you will feel so much happier! Don't chase after this guy because he might just try and keep you on the side incase things go wrong with another girl, and you definately dont wana be in that position. Get rid of him and move on to a real man who will treat you like you deserve! Good luck!!
-Jennifer

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