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Q: heres my problem. well ever since like 3 years ago, i've kinda had a thing for this guy, Chris. and we'd always flirt and talk and in class we'd have to get our seats moved bc we talked to much. and my Best Best friend ever has liked him to. but she's always rotating on who she likes. like if she likes a guy, and they dont like her, she decided to like another guy instead. well she recently started going out w/ Chris. and it was their one month yesterday and they dont even act like a couple At all. they like hug at the end of the day and thats it. they hardly Ever go Anywhere together, their basically acting like friends, not boyfriend and girlfriend. and then like last week, she started having strong feelings for this other guy. and she was gonna dump chris and everything. then she changed her mind, and wrote chris a note saying that she had feelings for another guy and it wasnt fair to him that she likes 2 guys at once, blah blah blah. and he didnt even talk to her about it! he just acted like it never even happened! i was like WTF? she had even told me that "i'm gonnna be all over *this guy* and i dont care what chris thinks or says about it" and i told chris that she said that..and he didnt really seem to care about that either? and the only reason i still have feelings for chris is b/c the way he looks at me. we always walk to 11th period together and he's constanly making me laugh. and when me him and my bestfriend are sitting their talking he'll look at me and just give me this amazing smile. i know its corny but his bright blue eyes and that smile just really get to me. and sometimes when my bestfriends not around we'll even flirt a little. i'm just really confused..i think he deserves a girl that likes him and Only him, what should i do? i want to make him see that shes not right for him, but i also dont wanna get into a fight w/ my bestfriend..thanks~*
maybe if you tell your best friend you like chris she'll step down? sometimes it might have to just get messy and you two might get into a fight but in the end you two will be ok.. so try talking to her and tell her that you do like chris and since she's kinda on someone else maybe she might consider breaking up with chris for you. if she's really your best freind she'd do it.

thanks~*

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this site has been down for a while but i'm starting it up again. i've been really busy with school work and other activities but now you can ask me questions again.


anyways about myself, i've gone through alot in my life and it's all made me stronger so i can relate to nearly any situation. i really love people. when i get older i do plan on doing something in this sort of field, maybe psychiatry. i'm currently a junior in highschool and i devote all of my time to either my friends, theatre, or school. yeah i'm sort of a nerd. if i can't get on here to reply to your questions and its urgent then you can always feel free to IM me on AIM and i'll try to help you on there. i'm basically always on.

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