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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah
thank you in advance, I'll rate you all
~Allysa (link)
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hm, i definatly think you should ditch sarah. What she is doing to you isn't fair at all, and you shouldnt' be resonsible for her seeing john or not. She sholdn't be putting that pressure on you. If you see any good quialities at all in her, then maybe u can give her a second chance. But from what you say, about other ppl saying she is no good it seems to me like she is not a good friend. It is very considerate of u to have been doing this for her, and thinking abot staying witth her just bc she doesn't have friends but i think this is a sitatuon where you need to think about what is good for you. As for making new friends, maybe join a club, sports team or a class outside of school (art, photography,rec. sports team)..As for john, he will respect your desicion if he is a good friend and he will understand ur POV. Hope this helped , and that things work out for the best :)
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