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I have a big problem.Over the summer I was smokin,drinking and doing alot of bad shit but know im here know and I want to change everythin in my life. I dont want to be so despreased or sad. I want to be happy.I'm trying to say that I want to change alot of things that has happened in my life.I also want to stop cuttin myself I try to but I just cant.So can you just please just help me a little that its all that I'm askin I dont want to be this way anymore.It's horrible!
So please help me!
-Amanda Marie
oh that's awesome u wanna change. I know how hard it is when you fall into bad habits...I know how hard it is to get out. First of all, if you drink and smoke with ur friends, try avoiding that. I'm not saying avoid ur friends(that would be very hard!) I'm just saying if they say, "Hey wanna come to a party" or something just tell them that u dont want to or talk to them if they r understanding. tell them u dont want to drink or smoke and mayb they will help. Secondly with cutting, there r many ways to stop. Put a rubberband around your wrist, every time u feel the urge to cut just snap it really hard...(it hurts but it's a way that won't hurt u like cutting) or maybe find an old stuffed animals and cut it up when ur mad. Also duck tape works, put it on ur arm where its hairy and just rip it off..once again painful I know but it's not cutting! hopefully by these u get the same effect of cutting but it's not harmful. good luck and whenever ur mad just listen to music, punch a pillow, snap a rubber band, or even write. good luck, don't worry be happy!
(Rating: 5) wow thanks that was great advice