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Ok, well,Im 16 & there is this guy that Im falling really hard for. He's so funny and I love to hang around him, but it seems like whenever I'm around him, I get so scared. I'll be talking to my friends and I'll be like, ok, tomorrow, I'm gonna tell him how I feel. And then when I see him, I'm like, oh no...I cant do it. I just get so intimidated! I know why I cant talk to him, too. Its cuz, well, I know Im not very pretty or anything and I find it really hard to believe that he would like me back. So I just think that it would just be so weird for me to be around him if I told him I liked him and he didnt like me. But all my friends are like, OMG, you need to tell him NOW! This has been a problem for me for a very long time. Everytime I like a guy, I like him so much that i bring myself to tears thinking about him, but I just cant get the courage to tell him how I feel. Am I right to hide my feelings from him so it wouldnt be awkward to be friends, or do I need to suck it up and spill my heart to him? Thanks a million!
First of all, you're gorgeous! You should do whatever you feel you need to do. I personlly think that you should tell him how you feel, since almost everyone else already knows..you apparently don't have too much self confidence..I understand that you wouldn't wanna make things weird between you 2, but "You might regret what you do- but you'll regret what you don't do SO much more" I really think you should get the courage to tell him how you feel b/c you will feel alot better that he knows:/ Goodluck!
..."Whatta Loser"
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I really do need to tell him and get it off my chest! ~*whos first*~