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My family (mom, and Sister and me) just moved away from my older sister and my dad.Well we moved in with my moms boyfriend:(. He has a little boy (11 OR 12) that lives with us and a daughter that lives in North Carolina.(Age 6)
Well Ronnie gets more attention from my mom than she givs to us. My sister is 13 and im 15. Im the oldest. well in that house. Im the middle one out of 9. ranging from 6-25. Everything Ronnie does Kaylie and I get in trouble for it. Im getting sick and tired of his and my mothers and her boyfriends shit all the time. What do i do. I tried talking to them already. Please help.
i never told me mom yet that if things dont change soon and we stop gettin introuble for what Ronnie does, thenim moving back with my dad. ASt least he dont yell at us for nothing. He actually pays attention to us. My mom and Ron just pays attention to Ronnie. Grrr...

Help me plz. I dunno what to do.

signed.. Family Trouble

All I can suggest is presenting your case to your mum in a logical and sound [and adult] fasion. Don't whine or yell, but tell her you feel like she doesn't love you as much as she loves this new part of her family, maybe cite a few instances where she obviously favoured ronnie over you and your sister [ie, ronnie got a new toy, but you didn't even though you'd be asking for somthing for a long time]. Also detail instances when you were blamed for somthing you didn't do. Hopefully she won't dismis these as petty concerns [and if she does, you need to make it clear that this is upsetting you so much you had to ask strangeds on the net for help ;)] or patronise you.
If that fails then, maybe you could tell your [biological] dad whats going on and ask him to speak your mum, adult to adult.

*hugs* I hope things work out for you.

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(Rating: 5) thanx but like i said earlier.. my mom wont taje the time to sit down and talk to my sister and i. shes too hung up on Ron and Ronnie.. next time.. plz dont use such big words.. i cant comprehend them so much. thanx *HUGS BACK*
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