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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..

1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years

2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him

3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me

4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior...

can anyone help me? i rate high tnxs

I really don't see the problem.
1. If you think that, then you should go for it. Maybe he'll change his mind.
2. Innocent untill proven guilty. Untill he presents you with proof not to trust his word, then think of it as he's telling the truth. And besides if you want to have any kind of relationship with him, you'll need to trust each other.
3.I don't think you can get someone addicted to fags just by being with them, and especially not if you're careful.
4. And thats a problem because...? If anything that sounds like a reason to go for it.

I say you and he should at least give it a try, and then even if things don't go well you can always just say, ah well, it was worth trying.

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