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hey..k i have this problem since like my freshman year of highschool, and now im a junior..every where i go, i feel like i ALWAYS gotta be on the look out for ppl who are gunna try n start shit and gunna fight me...yeah i do got beef wit ppl but not so much that i haveto be on guard 24/7...i feel like im always looking for a fight..i dont start shit with ppl but im ALWAYS ready to fight ne second, wherever i go..please dont say like..u shuoldnt even be fighting, u shuold talk things out, etcetc..but see thats my prob, i like cant, i always end up fighting n uses my hands, etc its so hard, ive been to anger management class like twice but they dont help that much..whenever i get mad, i just explode and dont think of anything else but that person and what they did to me and i explode.thats what my prob is...i hate this...help

lol, im the exact same way. im ready to fight in a second, whether its serious or not. a lot of ppl think im really nice. i dont go around starting shit, but whenever someone comes to me with some bullshit, i handle it. and yeah, its hard, because i guess were brought up what way. i have anger problems as well, and ive been to classes.. but they dont help much. i still fight. i guess the only thing you gotta do is to learn to control it yourself.. which i know, it will be very hard. i think i have too much pride to let shit go.. and ive tried working on it.. hasnt worked.. but maybe you should try more anger management classes as well. im 18 now, and ive been in about 20 or more fights my entire life. but as ive gotten older, i kinda stoppped fighting as much. so hopefully, ill grow out of it.. and hopefully you would as well.. sorry if i wasnt much of help ;\

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(Rating: 5) thanks ALOT, it helps hearing it from some1 who has tha same prOblEm..=]
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