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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?

i used to feel the exact same way about oral sex as you do.. my guy told me that he wanted to do it to me but i kept telling him no. when i finally gave in awhile later, i ended up having a whole different outlook on it. it really isnt that bad. it isnt bad at all. as long as both of you guys are clean, then theres nothing so wrong about it. give it a try. and it definitely doesnt mean, just because he does it to you, that you have to do it to him.. so yeah, if he wants to try it and not expect anything back, go for it. youll be satisfied. trust me

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