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ok..there;s this guy *dan* and he liked me a long time ago and then i started to like him but all he did was break ^ we me n hurt me really bad..recenlty we started tlkin..n we fell inlove..blah blah..well all my friends are yellin at me cuz they think he;ll just hurt me again..i dont tho..i could b wrong but oh well..then there's this guy *james* he asked me out and stuff and i guess i really like him..but like i still luv * dan* and now *james* is all pissd at me and sayin shit ..all i want is to be *james* friend..cuz i luv *dan* but he won;'t..hes bein all possesive & shit..and all my frinds r tellin me to 4get * dan* n giv *james* a try..cuz hes like perfect & hell treat me better--which maybe true..but i need to go out w *dan* its jus sumin i hav to do..even tho i ikno ill prolli get hurt,,idk help =(..i feel bad *james* really likes me..shuld i giv him a chance? or trust *dan* after he hurt me 3 times? sorry so long

well, people will hurt you, even if they love you, in some way, something that the person you love will hurt you. maybe not intentionally but.. who knows. if you love dan and you believe that you should give him another chance, then do so. if that is what makes you happy. you shouldnt go out with james just because your friends think that hes a better person, because you know where your heart is and it obviously isnt with him. well, i know this is not much help, but just do what makes you happy.. and follow your heart. maybe youll get hurt in the long run, who knows, but atleast you know you tried to work things out.

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(Rating: 5) =)thanx for your time--sorry it was long
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