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this is a continuation to my question from earlier about the boyfriend doing the new things in bed.

well i asked him where they came from and he told me that we needed to try new things. alot of people told me he may or may not be cheating. like i said im just suspicious becuase we havent had sex in a while, and then all of a sudden we do and its all this crazy wild shit. i'm not saying that i didnt like it... its just strange. strange since we havnt done it in a while, and also cuz he didnt even like discuss these new techniques with me, he just went about them. and of course i went with them cuz they werent bad ideas and all. also, i am pregnant, so like my sex drive is always down, and his is always up. i read that this is very normal, like there is just something that turns guys on about thier woman being pregnant, and there is something that turns woman off about being pregnant, i guess cuz we get all fat. but yeah, because of my low sex drive, i kinda have been pushing him away. could there also be a possibility that he just gave me some space to wait for me to want to do it again? or maybe he got self consious, and was thinking he wasnt that good anymore and wanted to find some new techniques for us to do to make things better? i dont know, but i am like really beating myself up wondering where he got them from. what i really need is a guys oppinion. and if there may be any girls who have experienced this sort of situation that would be good too.

well, i can relate to you about not having sex in awhile and then the next time we have sex that there were some new moves poppin up. i dont know, i never really thought about it up until now.. but i sorta kinda think you have nothing to worry about. we all know, guys watch porn and all that crap so they can always learn it from there. i mean, sometimes during sex, i just do different things that are out of the usual now and then as well, but i never slept with any other guy or cheated on him.. you know what i mean? i can definitely see where youre coming from with all of this, but i dont think you should worry too much. a beautiful pregnant woman like you shouldnt worry soo much.. you cool grl, you straight. if anything, hit me up, ill beat his ass. you know where to find me *wink

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