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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?

i believe that if there was still something there between you and your ex, that he wouldnt have fooled around with another female. maybe he still loves you, only he can tell you that, but if he went out and did stuff with another girl, he obviously didnt care about you at the time. me, personally, me and my ex, we love each other, and even though hes my ex, i love him that much that i wouldnt mess around or talk to any other guy. if i found out that my ex was messing around with another female, that just shows how much he really "loves" me. so i say.. that maybe you should give this new guy a try because your ex was being selfish and he didnt even stop to think about your feelings. honestly, im not trying to say that the spark between you and your ex isnt there.. its just that i dont think its fair that he can do that to you. thats all i can really say, but the decision is for you to make. just do what makes you happy, because only your happiness matters

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(Rating: 5) thanks.. wow that helped.. ur good
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