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ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx!

Well, my first kiss was with someone i hardly even knew. I regret kissing him as my first so make sure your first kiss is with someone special and someone you can trust. Don`t rush into getting that first kiss because then when you finally get it, it wont seem as great as you thought. i`m sure your really pretty and the guy you first kiss shouldn`t kiss you for your looks it should be for your beautiful personality, thats when you know its special. About your friends, dont worry about them they`re just acting immature, it will all blow over and i can promise you that if you stop searching eventually your prince charming will come to you. good luck sweetie.

xO.Carrie

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im really depressed and i dont know what to do with myself both of my best friends whom i hang out with all the time both have boyfriends, but me being the ugliest friend does not. i feel really left out the thing is no guy will notice me because im not pretty and im not fat but im not skinny im 5"8 and i weigh about 175lbs ive stopped eating basically, trying to lose weight. i just want to be happy again how do i get some confidence???? i have none at all... please help i feel like the ugly duckling of the group

Wow, if you are feeling really depressed you should write all your oppion`s and thoughts down in a journal. And trust me not eating is not a good way to loose weight. Yes it help`s but once you`ve stopped eating it gets harder and harder to start eating and you begin to grow an eating disorder. Trust me i unfourtunatly know all about that kinda stuff. Just start eating fruit and eating healthy. And about your two best friend`s, having a boyfriend isn`t having it all. If you think your ugly you shouldn`t depend on a guy to make you feel diffrently. Don`t search for love, love will come to you. And start telling your two best friends how you feel because they may not know if your hiding these feelings from them. Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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my brest are a 34a and im 16 do u think that i should get inplants if so y or if not y??

Personally, I wish my breast`s were 34a, I`m 14 and i`m already a C. I think you should be happy with what you`ve got and know that you`re beautiful no matter what. =)

xO.Carrie

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If you have had cyber sex does that mean you have lost your virginity?

Mentally, yes. Physically, no. =]

xO.Carrie

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I love my boyfriend but how long in a relationship do u think u should wait to have sex?

I don`t think time matter`s i think all that matter`s is if your ready and you feel close enough and have love and care for him to do it.

xO.Carrie

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i havent made out with anyone for like a year now..n i think i forgot how to..wat shood i do??

Hmm this is kind of a hard question. But the first time i made out with someone i was clueless and didnt know what to do, but it really isnt that hard so the next time your kiss come`s along just relax and go with the flow. I dont think you should have to worry about something like this. =P gOod luck !!

xO.Carrie

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hey sry this is personal, but i wana know if u and/or ur friends shave.. "down there" should i? or shud i not? thanks ;)

Hmm well personally most every girl does it because they think it`s gross. I dont think it matters to a guy as long as it`s not an afro lol. I`d just go with mowing the whole lawn.

xO.Carrie

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hey i got a ?..wat is oral sex..n how do u give som1 a hand job? thanx!

Oral sex is when either a girl goes down on a guy meaning giving him a 'blowjob' or it could mean visa versa when a guy goes down on a girl 'eating her out'. And as far as the handjob goes ask your partner on how he likes it done best because a handjob is basically jacking off a guy for them and they all have diffrent 'technics'.

xO.Carrie

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ok i like this girl and she likes me but i cant ask her out because she might like another guy and ive liked her for a little while and we have kissed but i dont know what to do about it we dont see eachother that much. i wana know if i should just ask her out or leave it be.

If she likes another guy, then shes not worth it. But if you really really seem to like her, just give it some time and talk to her about your feelings and wether or not there seriouse. Good luck

xO.Carrie

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hey umm i went out with someone named Kyle 2 years ago for 6 months and i dont kno what happened but we broke up. For a while now i have been getting all the feelings i had back. I really love him so much and i cant get over him! He likes my best friend and my best friend colleen flirts with him back but i told her i dont like him [[ i lied to her ]] and i really like him but its over. what do i do?

try telling Colleen you still like Kyle, Tell her how you`ve been feeling for the past while and that you really want to try and make things work with him because you really love him. Good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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Hey . . . great advice! Does it cost any thing to create an account?
*tHaNx*

Thanks!! nope whole thing is free. good luck!!

xO.Carrie

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hey i was just wumdering if it cost ne $money$ to have a colum on advicenators?
*tHaNkZ*

Nope, whole dang thing is free. good luck!! =p

xO.Carrie

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can i put my colum link on here? thanks girl!

http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Rach

Brilliant advise giver =p

xO.Carrie

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Well my boyfriend and I want to take our relationship to the next level. He's banged me and I've gave him a hand job. Do you have any ideas of what is out there, for my boyfriend and I to take it the next step? thanks.

Well taking thing`s to the next level, have you ever tried oral sex?

xO.Carrie

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ok here goes...i like this kid...and last year we hooked up..i started to like him alot and i got scared and he asked me out and i said no and made up an excuse saying he was a player...and he got rly mad and we stopped talkin and then we started talkin again in march and now hes all like ur soo beautiful i like u...and i dno if i can believe him cuz he is a huge flirt..and like the other night we got to talking and he was testing me and he was like mani need some booty and he asked me for some and i said sure and i told him i didnt care if i was juss booty but i rly did and he was like i dont want u to juss b booty and i was like idc all i think of us is friends and he was like do u wanna be more cuz i do and i said no...i lied but i cant tell him i lied cuz he had said to me that he loves how im real and tell the truth...soo ahh what should i do i rly like him...my tummy hurts everytime i think about him and when i see his # on caller id and when he IMs me ne thing...and i feel like im gonna throw up

Try talking to him, ask him if it`s you he really wants. Tell him how you if you were to take it to the next leval that it would make you really uncomfertable if he was a flirt with all the girl`s. Most guy`s stop there whorish flirts one they end up in a relationship, he sounds to me like a good guy, so i say talk to him and try giving him a chance!! Good luck.

xO.Carrie

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Recently i started giving my bf a hand job and
it takes a few minutes before his penis is hard
is this normal? he's a bit worried about it am i doing it right?

All guy`s penis`s are diffrent, so yes it`s normal. Just enjoy it, try new technic`s maybe? I`m pretty sure you guy`s both have nothing to worry about

xO.Carrie

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god ok my mom is s0o0o overprotective and doesnt trust me worth crap cuz im 13 and we already start havin bfs and my mom just thinks were all out to have sex and were all sluts n stuff and she wont let me go to the mall w/out a parent and she wont let me up past a certain time ((its the fricken summer! hullo! lol)) and then she wont let me go tanning cuz she says its taking a risk of gettin skin cancer since my brother had cancer and now shes waaaaaay to overprotective cuz of that and im sick of it! and shes always finding notes.. and she goes thru my backpack all the time and so now all im doing is hiding stuff from her and seriously its like im in jail and she says the next time she finds a bad note or finds out im doing stuff w/ guyz n stuff shes gonna like be around me 24/7 and i have to have a room next to her and im rilly scared thats wuts gonna happen.. wut should i do?

Well haha I can completly relate to everything you just said. When i was 13 my mom was just as protective, and my dad had cancer so she wont let me go tanning ( even though i do it anyways ). Seriously as you get older your mom will start to trust you more but what i advise is for you to start getting involved in her life, your still her "little girl" and she`s afraid of letting that go, if you spend your whole life fighting back at her you guys will drift further apart and she`ll trust you less. So start doing activites with your mom and talk to her about your life so she understands that your just having fun and not sleeping around and what not. I wish i had known that when i was 13 !!

xO.Carrie

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mi best friend just told me that hes gay... and that is rally weird fir me.. i mean.. i should have known.. he is always the one who picks out mi clothes when where at the mall.. but i dont know how to deal with it.. im the only person hes told.. and i know he likes one of his friends.. should i tell his friend? should i act the same around him?

If your truley his best friend you`ll accept the sexuality of him. He is experiancing something new and told you because he trusts you, it doesnt mean to freak out and get scared that he will start hitting on you because thats very unlikley. Just support him like a true friend =)

xO.Carrie

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can a boy be a virgin

Um, yeah ... anyone can be a virgin. Infact everyone is a virgin until they first have sex.

xO.Carrie

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ok kerry, its me your bff. im really frealong out crying baout this whoel pregnancy test im scared to take it again if its true baout being positive i could die i mean its me, my bf is 18 knowing my mom hell go ot jail and everyone well hate me... i cant have a child im only 14 i feel like a slut and hes the only guy ive been with. im freaking out and hes freakin out at me, im scared and i dont know what to do if your write about it being positve

Baby i love you so much and you know that, no matter what i`m always here for you. First off we dont know it for 100% but you should definatly tell your boyfriend, Then you should talk to him and decide a plan on the whole pregnancy issue. I hope all works well for you and I will talk to you about it more in person. I love you BfF.

xO.Carrie

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