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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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my boyfriend has post cuncussion syndrom from a tackle when he was playing foot ball and he's been really depressed latley. i'm not sure what i can do to help because he's been acting so isolated. he doesn't want to talk and i'm not able to see him over the weekend so i sent him a message telling him how happy he makes me and what a great guy he is and that i'm always gonna be here for him. but i don't think that's enough.
i want to do more to help but i don't know what i can do. it hurts me to see him so sad. i love him so much too.
any suggestions?
I think he amy need some space. When he comes around and is ready to see you again then be sure to show him how much you love him. Be there for him when he needs it. Give him comfort and be sure to hug him a lot. =]Hope this helps you.
okay so i usually wash my face around 3 times a day. once in the morning, once when i get home from school to wash off all the oil and makeup (i don't do this every single day) and then at night before bed.
is this too much? should i stick to just twice a day? because i heard that washing too much can irritate your skin and i don't want that! let me knoww what you think.
I think that it'll be fine. I mean I wouldn't wash anymore then that though. It's very good to wash your face. Then again, if you do start to see anything strange going one then I'd cut back to two.
Should I be on the top, or the bottom? Please base this answer on which hurts more. And if you have any advice on how to make it hurt less, I would definitely appreciate it.
I would say the bottom. For your first time at least. It'd be eaiser. If you don't want to do this yet don't though. If you have any doubts I would wait.
So, I'm going out with this guy and I don't really see him a lot because of our schedules at the moment but hes always saying stuff, like he misses me and he thinks about me a lot.. but he never calls or texts or anything. Another thing he does is sometimes when we're talking on aim, he'll just all of a sudden leave without saying bye or anything. Is all of this normal? Its my first relationship and idk, my friend and her boyfriend are always talking and texting all the time, but this guy dosen't seem to want to. Anyway, if anyone has any advice, let me know. Thanks :)
I did have a boyfriend quite like this. Sometimes guys just show their love differently. Don't think he does not want to be with you just because of this. If you think something is up though, you may want to try to talk with him about it.
When somone works out everyday does their metabolism get faster and stay that way?
No it doesn't really change. Even though it doesn't, working out is very god for yuor body and makes you healthier and stronger.
my best friend and i just had a really big fight. and the fight was about how i frustrate her because i have low self esteem. ='[
i don't know what to do. i've been crying for an hour now and i feel so helpless and lost. most of my friends get annoyed with me i think. because i'm stupid and dumb.
see? low self esteem. i can't help it. it's not a problem that i can just make up my mind to fix. it doesn't work like that. i don't know what to do and i feel sick and lost. the person i'd call to talk to about this would be her, but she's the one that hurt me. she's basically all i have left. the other two people i want to talk to just to talk to someone won't answer their phones and i'm just so sick right now.
i don't know how to fix this. i just don't know. i feel lost. =[
~15/f
Well I have low self esteem aswell. It makes my boyfriend mad when I talk so badly about myself. You have to learn to get over it though. I am lucky that I have him to help me through it. What you can do I'd suggest is say something good about yourself each day. If yuo don't get over it still...at least don't say bad things about yourself while you are talking to, or with other people. Goodl uck! Tell me how it goes.
14/f
freshman
right now i am 5'3''
my mom is 5'8''
my dad is 5'10''
and my sister turned otu to be 5'8''
what would you guess that i will be?
and yes i have started my period.
but dont say that it stops, i know that that isnt true because i have grown 2 inches last year.
please help.
Some people are just short. I am one of those people. Don't worry though. Shorties have there advantages. Haha.
so there is this student teacher in our class and i see him everyday (when i'm at school of course) and he's so attractive and has an amazing smile. i'm only 16 and he's 22 or 23. to me that's just weird. but i know i couldn't have him, because the age difference and he's technically a teacher. i don't know what it is, but i know i like older guys. they just seem to be better than some of the immature guys at my school.
he is a teacher and that's never going to happen. should i stop thinking about him? should i just not worry about it?
Well since you know you could never have him I suppose it's a wise desicion to just forget him. It's great to like older guys...but make sure you're not getting over board. I'm sure you can find a great, attractive guy closer to your age. Good luck =]
Im at skewl and the teachers ask me to go up on the board infront of the whole class my hand or leg starts shaking uncontrollaby and i would mess up in my handwriting on the board im guessin becasue the guy i like is in my same class so thats why im always so nervous to go up on the board haha is there any way i could control it? or something that would calm me down cuz i find it rather embarassin..thanks :)
Okay here's what i'd do. I would just act really calm by imagining he's not in there. Then you could focus on what you're learning and when you get that answer right...turn around and give your chrush a sweet smile. Hope it all goes well.
help i can't stop making up fabricated stories! i keep lying to impress people! and it's not that i want to or that i am being pressured it's just when someone says a word i automatically think of something cool relating to it. and sometimes that lands me into so much trouble! especially that i can't admit that i lied! what should i do?!?!? i am NEVER going to admit to the past lies but i want to stop them from reoccurring! and i want the most recent ones to go down the drain smoothly! help
I want to od this too. I always stop myself though. A good idea for you is...you could write a little story about whatever it is that you have wanted to say. Call me crazy but it does work. Somebody with a creative mind like you would be great at that. It'd be fun too. Then you can show your friends later on.
k so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. our one year is coming up in like a week and i don't know what to do! i don't really have any money but i know he has something planned. i'm trying to get creative but i can't think of anything. i don't want to like do something stupid. i was thinking like a cute mixed cd or something because he loves music and plays guitar very well.
any ideas? suggestions?
thanks a lot lot lot!
I think a mixed cd would be great for his type. =] put some great songs on there that he will enjoy. Maybe you could cook something for him too. I bet he would be happy just to be with you.
I have a best friend, whos a guy. He use to like me but I was to nervous to admit it so when he told my other best friend she told him i just liked him as a friend so he told he was going to try to give up. He ended up with a girlfriend the next week and I found out. Everyone said he just went out with her to get over me. They've been dating for about 4 months now, he says he loves her and stuff. I don't believe it, everytime he's with me, theres something there and we flirt a lot. His girlfriend goes to a different school. But the more we get closer, he just keeps pushing me away. I'm really depressed. I know I had my chance with him, and probably still do. The whole situation is making me depressed. Should I try to get over him or what? A few days ago we had a really deep talk about all of this, and he just found out I "used" to like him. Please help me out!
Hmm...I think it's a really good idea to tell him. But if you think it's going ot mess up what's left of your relationship then maybe you shouldn't. Then again...yuo can't go around waiting for something to happen. I mean if you told him you USED to like him then you probably should go ahead and tell him you still do. Show him a good time and let him see who he probably is still head over heels for...you.
About six months ago, I went to this competition that a club of ours was having at school. There was a boy there, who I met from another state, and we decided that we were going to go out to dinner that night. He kept on begging for a kiss, but I really didn't want to give it to him. I was seeing someone at the time, however, this dinner wasn't exactly a date. It was the clubs who had gotten together. But, either way, he wanted me to kiss him, and i really did not want to. I thought that this is where the story would end. But, obviously, it did not stop there. We exchanged e-mails and kept writing back and forth to each other. I thought it was pretty cool, kind of like pen pals. Soon, the summer came, and I didn't hear so much from him, because he went to another country, etc. Anyway, my mother remembered his birthday. Don't ask me how, she just did. I could kill her! She told me she was going to send him a cake for his birthday. At first, I thought this was just a little cake saying happy birthday. I was like ok, because I didn't think that was a big deal and anyway, he lives alone in a boarding school, and I figured, he could use it to cheer up. But, my mother went a step beyond. Just a little too much! She ordered this custom-made rice-krispie cake with pictures of us from the competition. The loved it! From then on, he's assumed that I'm his girlfriend and has become really possessive. I can never tell him if another guy is calling me, or anything like that because he gets very angry. Well, thanks to my mother, again, we are going on a vacation with him this coming weekend. I don't mind the vacation so much, because God knows I really need it. But, I do not want to kiss this boy. My mother said that I better kiss him because he came all the way over here for a kiss, and she went through all this trouble, and paid so much money for the trip, and a kiss is not going to hurt. This having been said, let me just explain that I am madly in love with someone else and I don't want anything to stand in the way. I like this boy as a friend. I even think of him as my little brother, even though he's older than me. I can't see him like this. I can't kiss him! I can't kiss someone when my heart is in another place. It wouldn't be fair to me or to him, but I can't just tell him that at the beginning of the trip, because it is oing to ruin our vacation. He's been sending me texts saying "only __ more days till I can wetten my lips with yours." Yuck! I don't want to wetten my lips with anyone but the guy who I'm head over heals for, and that's just the way I am. There are people who can put up with just a peck if it's absolutely necessary, but I can't do it! I just can't! I need some help, please! I can't kiss him. He just turns me off so much. Sometimes, I see him on webcam, and he doesn't shave and I can't stand the thought of anybody who isn't the other guy to put their arms around me, or caress me. It really grosses me out, and I'd rather be alone than not be with the right person. I feel awful, but he's just not the right person. I just can't do this in a way that is mean, because we have already gone through all of this trouble, and he is so alone. Please help me!
This sounds really tough and confusing. Okay I really can't even believe your mother is in on this. First you should talk to her about the whole situation. Make her realize how much you are in love with the other guy. The next thing to do is get rid of the boy. Okay yeah it's sweet when somebody is head over heels for you right? But he is just really obsessive. It's okay if you don't want to kiss him. It's your lips, your choice. You have the right to choose. Just tell him that you only want to be friends. Maybe you could introduce him to another girl so he could get over you faster. If you are in love with somebody else always go for him.
okay well i know what 4:20 is, i think almost every teenager in america knows. But okay this isnt really a thing for advice,its more of a question and i would GLADLY appreciate it!!!
Well this has been happening to me for like about 2 years.
Everytime the time turns to 420 i look at it!
every single day! it is so weird. And my little pot head friends lol say that thats like tight but i really dont know why this happens. Im not even kidding EVERY day at 4:20. i dont know if its a sign or something. Do you think it has to do with the fact that i was supposed to be born on april 20th? because i was. but my mom had me 10 days earlier.
well anyways if you know like what this means or anything please let me know because i think about it everyday!
thank you so much
Hm...I think it could just be that you look up at the clock at this time. Have you seriously done this every single day of your life? If so then maybe it is a bit strange. You could possibly have a sign here of something. maybe you should check into it more.